mold dust woman

vicariously living from one to do list to another

[mold dust woman @mangotongo]

@TylerAlterman Morning sun exposure
Playing with my neighbors cats
Going out on my balcony when there's a strong breeze
Having tea during sunset hours

[Emily - 🚂 Bristol Oct 6-9 @the_aiju]

the answer “why do people do <counterproductive/stupid/evil thing>” is almost always “because it gets them some need met they haven’t figured out how to get met in a more productive/wholesome way yet” but people love to jump to the conclusion “because they’re intrinsically evil”

[mold dust woman @mangotongo]

told my therapist what's up and she started crying

[Supernova Momma @SupernovaMomma]

Anyway that’s why when I say misbehavior is communicating unmet needs I put misbehavior in “”. Cause sometimes what some of you adults think is misbehavior is just children looking for autonomy, having opinions, or being naturally curious

[Supernova Momma @SupernovaMomma]

sometimes what some of you adults think is misbehavior is just children sensory seeking, sensory avoiding, executive dysfunction, communication issues, social confusion, rejection sensitivity dysphoria..etc

[TMF™ @TgFirdaus]

@drgsdgaf Tak tau nak kata apa kang takut dosa. Perati je la.

[celador @selladorre]

@MiriVinni you neglect to mention Koreans eat a potent feedstock (kimchi) with every meal, transforming their guts into the most formidable bioreactor on the planet.

[mold dust woman @mangotongo]

@DivyaRainjana The fact that you can easily adapt might be a sign that you belong in more communities than the average person, sounds pretty nice to me

[mold dust woman @mangotongo]

@immamonk18 This went so hard omfg I can't believe youve seen this

[Visakan Veerasamy @visakanv]

a snippet from a conversation with a friend that’s still ringing with me: when you’re young, say 14-22, it’s hard to properly imagine how your existing social reality is going to change. you may feel a sense of loyalty to your friends, such that the idea going out and seeking new friends can seem like a kind of betrayal.

In practice, hardly anybody even really puts words to these vague, subtle feelings. it’s only after years of drift and loss and grief that you (may) begin to loosen your subconscious grip on what you had held together as immutable about your reality. While painful, the destruction of this order creates the opportunity for something new. New imaginings, new possibilities, new ways of being, new ways to relate to people, new people to relate to.

Not many people really articulate this either, so a lot of people are living amidst layers of emotional debris… I’m drifting here though… what I really wanted to get to was, a sudden striking sense I got as to why “seek excellent peers” doesn’t always resonate all the way through for everyone. It’s at least partially because the idea of consciously seeking new peers seems mercenary to people. This perspective changes as one lives through change and witnesses the ebb and flow of all things.

Gently focusing on what you genuinely want, slowly reveals itself to be an earnestly loving way of being. Time and tide will tell.

[mold dust woman @mangotongo]

@sunbeibi I'd rather be in traffic for 2 hours straight than read something written like this

[mold dust woman @mangotongo]

For personal reasons I will no longer be reading books written by men

[rayne fisher-quann @raynefq]

all takes about the best friend’s boyfriend relationship are wrong. the best friend’s boyfriend is neither your enemy nor your prospect ; he is there to watch you and your best friend perform . every great act needs an audience & the bff’s boyfriend is the audience that must clap

[Shaq Koyok @ShaqKoyok]

The new badly built bridge from the indigenous community Kampung Sungai Kecau, Semenyih, Selangor was destroyed for the second time by the heavy rain last night. Now school students can not go to school. Other bridge is unsafe 😢 #IndigenousPeoples #ClimateCrisis

[aiman @aimandamai_]

Post four books that had a major effect on your political thought.

[mold dust woman @mangotongo]

They just don't make cute sandals like they used to anymore

[kasra @kasratweets]

considering just accepting that during this nebulously-shaped part of my life, I'm going to have these periods of 1-2 weeks where I'm super motivated and excited, interspersed with periods of 2-3 days where I'm feeling completely lost and hopeless

[kasra @kasratweets]

agency is a skill, it's a habit you can cultivate. gratitude is a skill, it's a habit you can cultivate. love is a skill, it's a habit you can cultivate. resilience is a skill, it's a habit you can cultivate. presence is a skill, it's a habit you can cultivate. patience is a

[mold dust woman @mangotongo]

@gunsnrosesgirl3 Not looking at my phone for as long as possible when I wake up

[michaela okland @MichaelaOkla]

Every woman I’ve ever talked to has been a bit embarrassed about who she dated when she was 19, like it was pretty much the lowest of her dating standards, so it’s rly funny to see grown men be proud of dating 19 year olds