No disrespect to anyone, but God please donโt send me another man who doesnโt know how to communicate, take accountability, or emotionally show up. I donโt want a man whoโs still battling himself, avoiding healing, depressed, or emotionally unavailable and refusing help. I donโt want a man who canโt stand firm, speak for himself, or take control of his own life. I donโt want a man who belongs to someone else, is still tied to past situations, or lacks compassion, empathy, patience, and romance. Iโm not built to carry a grown man through life while neglecting myself. Dealing with someone like that will drain you mentally, emotionally, and physically. I want a partner whoโs already doing the work, not one I have to break myself trying to fix. Keep that kind of man far away from me.
stop letting people manipulate you into believing all you wanna do is argue when youโre speaking on what they did to you or how they made you feel .. thatโs a narcissistic babe & you will NEVER win in their world. get as far away as you can!
girl to girl.... put you first. hit the gym consistently. keep your nails done. eat GOOD food. do the hobbies you enjoy. take your vitamins. 9-10 hours of sleep. buy that new workout set. delete distractions. water your grass so much that you don't give a shit about anyone.