Hard Pill to swallow apparently. Doing something grand for a first date with someone you haven’t met is a choice. I empathize with her bc I’m sure it’s not a good feeling to be stood up but also “crashing out”, having a “villain arc” and making a vid and 2 gallons of horchata about someone you never met a lil nutty. She’ll find her person I’m sure but just be a little more counter intuitive about it.