Major cheat code for life: Always assume things will work out, then do the work to make it true. It’s a mindset of active optimism. Earned faith. It creates a quiet confidence that allows you to tolerate the uncertainty of life better than anything else.
A narcissist will only “love” you as long as you make them feel good about themselves.
Start calling them out on their bullshit and watch how quickly you go from soulmate to disposable.
Let's normalize telling people, 'It seems you don't have the capacity to love me in the ways I crave and need, so let's not continue this, I deserve better,' and leave it at that.
Accept that it didn’t work out. Accept that you were incompatible. Accept that they weren’t able to love you the way you needed. Accept that they simply weren’t your person. And then let go of the anger it’s only weighing you down. Yes, it hurts. But you can’t force something to fit where it doesn’t belong. What’s meant for you won’t require that much suffering just to hold onto it.
and if love ever finds me again, i hope it's with someone who thinks about how their actions affect me,someone who considers my feelings before making choices and values my peace as much as their own because I'm not here to survive love again, I'm here to finally live it