If it doesn’t affect what he can do for you and y’all’s dynamic at home then I don’t see the problem. But if we are suffering because you don’t have healthy boundaries that would also be a problem.
I saw someone say they don’t want to deal with a man who has to help his mom, grandma, etc with bills. Basically being the man to call on.
Curious to hear opinions
A LOT of MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. Peace is expensive. And pretending money doesn't affect mental health is privilege.
a man gonna treat you exactly how he feels about you. A man that wants you fr ain't leaving no space and opportunity for you to think anything else. i promise