Mika El Usman

Psychologist || Relationship and Marriage Coach || Personality Developer ||
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[Mika El Usman @marchology]

Don't mistake the mercies of Yahweh upon your life to mean you have too much grace than others, some people endure certain things in life because God is training them and taking them to a pre-planned destination that far outweighs their current circumstances, be mindful of this

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

Brothers, always remember HEALTH is WEALTH. Take CARE of yourselves too, MENTALLY, SPIRITUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, FINANCIALLY and all. Enjoy LIFE to the FULLEST and KEEP some MEMORIES for your old age because you'll be needing THEM when you'll stay all ALONE in that ABANDONED house

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

That you are a Man, the World is already leading you 1 - 0, because nobody listens to your cares or feelings, then when you marry 2 - 0, you don't have money 3 - 0, give birth to Children who don't value you or forget you when you are old and frail 50 - 0.
Men need help too

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

You better build a good relationship with your father now that you still have him, when he is no more, we will be hearing; had I known, I would have treated him better. Men go through a lot and their families are their safe space, let him be himself around
Family is all we've got

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

There are no two people in this world that are the same. We are all unique in our own little but significant ways.
Let's learn to tolerate those little differences please.
Thanks for trying

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

If you keep dancing with the Devil, one day, the Devil will follow you home as an invited Guest.
Mind your AFFILIATIONS
CHOOSE carefully, be it Colleagues, Business Partners, Friends and all forms of RELATIONSHIPS.
The only one you are denied CHOICE is family.
Don't be sorry

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

Some persons, things, situations and scenarios are not worth worrying yourself over, if you can't change them, just let them be.

Just go on a Silent, gradual detachment for your own mental health

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

Brain tests should be conducted before wigs are sold.

How do you put such an expensive item on emptiness, nothingness, void

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

Sometimes you have to experience something really bad in order to appreciate what you had and didn't value but lost because you thought you were going for greener pastures only to end up in a barren thorny land.

Not all that glitters is gold.

Ponder on that for a moment

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

Some of you will go about, make noise, constitute nuisance and you are still irrelevant, you are nobody in the grand scheme of things. Chaiii

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

Stop spending to look important or successful and stop spending all your life savings to look good, if you don't have, you don't have. People that really have don't need to dress to impress, they just wear T-shirts and jeans and let their pockets do the talking.

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

I recall that year when one came to my house and that was the end of it, when she was leaving I was singing in my head "Good bye to you my trusted Smell"🤢
You need to do better abeg. Dey smell your clothes after use, if you don't perceive anything, go see a doctor. You need help

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

Prophet of Doom Series:
Some relationships will end today, not because of your bad character but because of that stench coming from your body called body odour.

Please explain to me how you bathe with Detergent or Viva washing soap.

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

That perfume you borrowed will wear off and then your real nature is revealed and he will not be able to tell you because before he's done talking you have accused him of body shaming you. I know some of you think body shaming is only about weight🙄 Olodo

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

Sometimes you need to practice stoicism because too much availability leads to disrespect, it's true that what you have too much of, you don't value, a popular saying goes "Over familiarity breeds contempt"
Make yourself unavailable to the disrespect and get back your peace

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

You know that one risky move your mind has been telling you to make and every other person says you shouldn't, do it today, if it fails, you pick up, lessons learned, you go again. I am not talking about Ponzi Schemes and online businesses that you don't know the source ooo

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

Remember that it's not everyone you share your business ideas with, some persons will kill your optimism with their pessimism. The difference between a successful business and a stagnant one can sometimes just be that one risky move no one else thought would work

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

The reason some of us are not successful is because of the "THIS THING WILL NOT WORK" company that we keep. It's not everyone that is friendly towards you that is necessary for your dreams to be realized. They see you, they love you but your vision far surpasses theirs

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

Nonsense, you better stop all this Nigerian movie/ entitlement mentality that most of you carry about blaming everyone else.
Go and work hard for your money while expecting the blessings of Yahweh. No one owes you nothing.
You owe it to yourself to do better
So do better🙄

[Mika El Usman @marchology]

So you thought God was going to stop blessing someone because the person did not help you or you were going to miraculously become bigger than him/her and you will one day pass him/her in a big Car.🤣🤣🤣