@notgangle incredibly painful. it makes you scared to do the wrong thing constantly. you will end up having to be the one to hold them back sometimes. if your family knows them and their struggles, it makes them less aware or caring of your own. it isnt their fault usually
HOT TAKE but…
1. i hate how much femshuake is sexualized in fandom by artists and writers, and i hate how casually its ignored. it’s not wrong to draw beautiful hot girls and admire them but when it comes to their personalities, lifestyles or self-expression that’s not okay +
@mytoyabf grooming is more than just "you believe this thing i dont like, you poor thing. you've been manipulated" it feels like taking the autonomy away from my own voice and decisions all over again Idk im trying to be nice
@mytoyabf but i dont think that makes it a clear cut victim/perpetrator scenario if adults in the community are not going out of their way to interact with minors?? the issue of nsfw being spread to minors in proship spaces is an issue of the internet itself more than the ideology
i think some of you on #proshiptwt need to remember that the whole stance is ANTI HARASSMENT
if someone simply has "proship dni" and isnt hurting anyone, follow the beliefs you claim and leave them ALONE
its one thing if theyre harassing or accusing us, but a dni hurts nobody