@ThresholdPulse@shalashaska098@tufpraise Hey so like I very much disagree with that person and think it was unfunny and distasteful. But for you to turn around and say they don’t deserve life is actually insane behavior and so not appropriate.
@thehunghairyone It’s courteous to say “not interested, sorry” but not required. I agree tho, like if they’re still online, 2 messages (3 max) spaced out by at least a couple hours should be enough to get the hint
@wrogers123 I understand wanting to know answers to some of those questions (slurs and friends) but like, seriously? Tv shows are your make or breaks?? Also can we please just bring it up in normal conversation?? This is like an application 🙄
@MbarkCherguia I will forever be in favor of non-gendered bathrooms for this exact reason. No doors on the main bathroom, just (ground to ceiling) stalls and sinks plus maybe one family (for diaper changes)/accessible bathroom. No room for anything like this to happen
@collegeguy281@sskorpioo@heelycrooshey@d4nnytye In the eyes of homophobes, being attracted to men is inherently feminine & emasculating. Because they view femininity as inferior, “feminine” men are punished for it. So yea, anti-gay prejudice isn’t only about presentation. Much of it is rooted in misogyny & policing masculinity
@R10006Ron@d4nnytye Increasing awareness that trans people were also targeted by the Nazis, arrested, institutionalized, & involved in activism doesn’t erase gay history. It adds context. Acknowledgment isn’t finite. Telling a more complete story doesn’t diminish the suffering or activism of gay men
@heelycrooshey@d4nnytye I have no clue how you presented yourself pre or post transition but Im gonna go out on a limb and mention how much men feel threatened by other (perceived) men who are femme. It knocks their toxic masculinity off balance so they feel the need to fight any male femininity. Ykwim?
@R10006Ron@d4nnytye Instead of directing your anger at the homophobes who did the mass murders, lobotomies, conversion & ECT, arrests, etc, you’re blaming trans people (many are gay too) who were targeted by the exact same institutions & prejudices. But you’d rather us fight each other? Ok, agitator