📌 I strongly believe that power exchange should exist only between mature adults who are capable of clear communication and informed consent.
Unfortunately, the BDSM community often tries to place all responsibility for the psychological effects of a dynamic on the Dominant, usually hiding behind the famous Marvel quote: “With great power comes great responsibility.”
I don’t think that principle applies here.
Either the submissive is a mature, consenting adult who is responsible for his own decision to submit - or it cannot be called BDSM at all. If he is incapable of informed consent, then it is simply abuse disguised as BDSM.
There is no way around it. Personal responsibility on BOTH sides is what makes power exchange possible in the first place.
You cannot surrender power you never possessed.
If you have no agency, there is nothing to surrender.
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Most men want the feeling of obedience without the inconvenience of it.
They like submission when it feels intense.
When they are aroused.
When they are praised.
When the command matches the fantasy.
But real obedience begins when the standard interrupts comfort.
Waiting without complaining.
Following the routine.
Completing the boring task.
Accepting that the moment is not centered on his pleasure.
Anyone can obey when obedience feels rewarding.
The real test is what remains when the intensity
A man who vanishes when obedience stops stimulating him was never serving authority.
He was consuming an experience.
Submission is not proved by one intense moment.
It is proved by what continues when obedience becomes inconvenient.
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