Introverts are highly intuitive, that's why you don't see them around a lot of people, only a few & they are either friends, family members, or a lover. We don't like the attention unless it's from certain people. We only hold deep & long conversations with certain people. We observe heavily. You have earned a big amount of my trust & very much special to me if I let you in my world, you can only exist there if I let you.
12 words more important than “I love you”
• I’m sorry.
• I’ve got your back.
• You look so beautiful today.
• Relax, I’ll take care of it.
• How was your day?
• I want your opinion on something.
• Talk to me, I’m listening.
• Get dressed, we’re going out.
• Every problem has a solution as long as you’re with me.
• Stay by my side, I miss you.
• A small gift for you.
• I’ll never leave you.
Kayo din ba? Do you immediately go silent when something upsets you? I mean, it's a coping mechanism I’ve developed over time. Instead of expressing my anger or frustration, I simply withdraw and try to process my emotions in private. I prefer handling my problems on my own.
I used to think I was introverted because I like being alone, but it turns out I really like being at peace with myself and my surroundings, and I'm extremely extroverted with people who bring me comfort and happiness.
dating someone who brings out your playfulness, makes you laugh, never stops flirting with you, and loves you a little extra on the days you don’t feel lovable. it makes you feel so incredibly safe and secure. that safety only makes you fall even more in love.
"Small things" that aren't small to me:
-Goodmorning texts
-Texting me first
-Fast replies
-Remembering things about
me
-Trust and Loyalty
"Call me when you get
home"
- "Love talking to you"
-Deep conversations
Dear Santa,
• At least 6'1
• opens the door
• goes out of his way to make me happy
• plan dates & buy me flowers without asking (bare minimum)
• emotionally intelligent
• obsessed with me
• can't breathe without me
• provider, rich & soft spoken
INVEST IN YOUR LOOKS, get the facial, buy these shoes, the jewelry, get your hair and nails done. You look better, you feel better, you do better, people treat you better, life gets better.
People who go silent when somethings upsets or hurts them, are often experiencing coping mechanism called “Emotional Withdrawal”. It's not that they have nothing to say, it's that their system learned that silence is safer than being misunderstood. Instead of expressing anger or frustration, they hold it in.
Introverts make only one mistake: they sometimes tend to over love. They go all in. Mind, heart, body, and soul. They just give, give, and give. But sometimes people see it as a weakness or neediness. Take them for granted. But trust me, if they leave, they'll never come back.
Honestly, if you know how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you’ll understand why they shut all doors at the slightest sign of toxicity and become picky about who they allow into their lives.