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Friends that don't align with your values? Cut them loose. Stand your ground, call out the bullshit, and don't be afraid to get your hands dirty. It's YOUR life!
When you stop wearing a mask, when you refuse to pretend, you attract the right tribe. My authenticity pulled in some truly awesome people. I wasn't misunderstood anymore, and that feeling? Pure f*cking gold
Think to yourself:
Who am I when no is watching?
What values and beliefs define me?
What are the things I like to do that make me happy?
How does the person I show the world differ from who I am in private?
What steps can I take to align these two versions of myself?
When I first started my brand - Even those who loved me doubted my decisions. "Too expensive, Too risky, what's your plan?" But you know what? I took the risk anyway. Why? Because I trust my gut. My hustle. My vision. It's mine, not theirs.
It seems everyone has something to say about how we should live our lives. Your career, your love life, heck, even the way you walk, talk or dress - there's always a 'well-intentioned' person eager to offer you their two cents. UM NO THANKS. Worry about yourself.
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and then there's me: emotionally unavailable or avoidant in relationships, attracting partners who are too. This makes it hard for me to build deep emotional connections in my romantic sector. Who I dated was a mirror of myself.
If you have low self-esteem or a lack of self-worth, you may attract a**holes who reinforce the negative ideas you have about yourself. You will be consistently undervalued, mistreated, or taken advantage of. Who you date is a mirror.
If you struggle with setting boundaries, you may attract partners who take advantage your vulnerability. This can lead to one sided relationships where your needs are consistently overlooked and disregarded. Who you date is a mirror.
If you have unresolved traumas or insecurities, you will attract people who also have unresolved emotional issues. This can lead to co-dependency. You are who you attract.
another example: People who repeatedly find themselves in relationships with partners who mistreat them might have low self-esteem or a lack of self-worth. They may not believe they deserve better treatment or struggle with setting and enforcing boundaries.
While it's true that our preferences, values, and behaviors can influence the type of people we attract, it doesn't necessarily mean that every person we attract is a direct reflection of ourselves. But most times - proof is in the puddin just sayin