If my daughter grows up one day, I would tell her before choosing a man, take time to understand how he was raised. His family background, the kind of father he has, how his father treats his mother. Because those things shape a man’s emotional and mental well-being, and they strongly influence the kind of partner he will become.
It’s not easy to change a man. And it’s not easy to find someone with empathy, emotional maturity, and common sense, unless he had good role models while growing up.