your standards are allowed to change, your boundaries are allowed to change, what you want is allowed to change.. you can wake up today after months and years of accepting the bare minimum and say no more, start requiring more and setting new and improved boundaries. it's allowed
Itโs okay. You know why ? I am a catch. I love harder than anyone youโll ever encounter again. I feel sorry for you, for being so blind and giving up a love like mine. Best wishes. Xoxo