Performative people care about perception and their reputation. Authentic people care about TRUTH. And the truth don't change because you don't like it.
nothing is funnier than somebody trying to shade you with information they could only know if they’ve been paying very close attention. thank you for confirming i’ve been on your mind.
some of y’all gotta understand that God really watches how you treat people. He even sees deeper because he knows your motives. So watch how you treat people because YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW. and just because you don’t see it now doesn’t mean you won’t later.
I can’t forgive malicious intent.
You planned it , weighed out the consequences and did/said it anyway . It’s something so evil about that. Access denied!
kids need to hear you defend them btw. when you see someone wronging them, don’t save it for a “grown folk’s conversation,” step in and say “you are not being fair to this child.” that’s critical for their self-esteem. many kids have never been shown that they’re worth defending.
You know what I love about myself? I figure things out. I find solutions. Sometimes it’s not even about benefiting myself. I’m just glad I’m not a dumb ass bitch.
One thing about life, it will humble everyone. The liar, the lover, the empath, the victim, the self righteous healer. No one escapes their own energy. It just takes time for truth to circle back.
please teach your daughters that having a voice is more important than being nice. having a backbone is more important than being palatable. having standards is more important than being liked. and having self respect is more important than being chosen.
Someone called me to talk about drama and I deadass haven’t picked up the phone for anyone since. Do not contact me unless it’s positive news, money, or a local oyster special. And I’m so serious.