the answer is usually focus on yourself and turn inward. you have so much life ahead of you. worry about what you got going on. worry about where you want to go. be dedicated to you, not stressin over someone else.
Scientists declare that it's human nature to be compassionate. All living beings who experience feelings of pleasure and pain ultimately survive as a result of love and compassion. If we human beings help each other, serve each other, with compassion, we'll be happy.