@aidenybai I consider my financial/career success a joint venture with my wife. She enabled me to hustle and consulted me through hard choices, and I enabled her to have the life she wanted as a stahm with the kids
Now we both enjoy the fruits of our joint labor
Have struggled with finding out what relationship to have with AI as I code, and the article that @ThePrimeagen reacted to yesterday made me feel seen.
Here is how I approach AI in software dev now.
- I do not use Cursor or Avante
- I have Claude open in a dedicated window
if you could press a button that cures your child’s brain tumor in exchange for ending your life immediately, every parent would hesitate for zero seconds before fighting to be the first to press it
the cruelest thing is that no such button exists.
but there is always a move 👇