She was never TOXIC. She just reacted to the lies, the gaslighting, the cheating, and the silence. He called her toxic for years to AVOID admitting he was the one doing the damage. She wasn’t the problem, she was the MIRROR.
I heard someone say that if betrayal was so forgivable then the devil himself would be sitting right next to God. We gotta learn how to forgive but cut ties and move on. You can’t keep giving people chance after chance to show you they’ll hurt you.
I CAN’T WAIT to experience love without trust issues, commitment issues, 3rd party situations, lack of integrity, sneaky link ups behind my back, and not having to beg to be loved, treated right, heard, seen, reciprocation is mutual, and i’m loved correctly the first time around
Love isn’t enough for me anymore. I need you to respect me. I need you to support me. I need you to reassure me. I need to know you won’t give up on me. I need you to value me. I need you to be gentle with me. I need to feel safe with you so I can be the softest version of me.
if a woman cannot soften, lean back, surrender, she’s in survival mode. Her nervous system doesn’t feel safe. She’s carrying what the man won’t. That’s not her flaw. It’s a reflection of the energy she’s around.
Sometimes i forget that "the other side" exists and I am reminded by tiktok anout the haunted stories from nurses who worked nightshifts and bedside. Lol
I really thought i had a good one until i found out he lied majority of the time. Im so mad. Gaslighted me when I had a gut feeling about his deceit. Ugh. Can't trust nobody. 😒
yeah breakups hurt, but have you ever been a super talkative, enthusiastic person but slowly over the years and after trauma you watch yourself become more quieter and quieter to the point where that enthusiastic bubbly person just isn't who you are anymore?
you're a healer main because you want to help people, i'm a healer main because i'm spiteful and don't trust anyone else to do it properly. we are not the same