Mark Stibbe Author

Award-winning Author of 'A Book in Time' and 'Fathers,' Labrador lover, chef/husband to Cherith, Canaries fan. PhD storytelling. YouTube channel below

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

@sitarah_m Dear Sitarah, could you kindly follow me back? I would love to share in confidence a Hazara-related matter with you. Thank you so much. Btw a huge thank you for your passionate plea for the Hazara people in the UN debate not long ago.

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

Check out my article about the really bad ideas about masculinity that gave my abuser John Smyth (see below) the intellectual validation for what he did to me and many other boys and young men in the UK and Africa. https://t.co/iZSmFCoJpO

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

@SeonaidDawn @leakylike @bbclaurak Thank you. I am v lucky. V well supported

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

J Welby now on BBC1 to @bbclaurak “I have said sorry to the ones who wanted to meet me.” Justin, you and I spent 90 mins talking about my abuse by Smyth in December. Not once did you say sorry. You didn’t ask me how I was. You implied you were the victim. This is v all sad 😢

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

@barbaradunning1 @bbclaurak Absolutely. I’m writing about precisely this in a new book on boarding school trauma.

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

J Welby says he would like to be forgiven by Smyth survivors but cannot demand it. I told you I forgave you when I was with you at Lambeth last December. You seemed to find it as hard to cherish then as you find it hard to honour now on BBC1

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

@shinybluedress @NickyAACampbell Thank you, Sue

[Sue Crocombe @shinybluedress]

@NickyAACampbell I can thoroughly recommend this book by @markstibbe “Home at Last”

the trauma of rejection he experienced as a result of being sent to boarding school aged 8
As an adult his heart was “boarded up”

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

‘Junior’ clergy are now having their PTOs (permission to officiate) withdrawn post-Makin while archbishops and bishops remain in their protected positions. This is like punishing NCOs when it’s the generals that need to go. Just do the right thing @churchofengland #cleansweep 😤

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

@cathynewman @katierazz @Channel4News @churchofengland So grateful to you and your amazing team, Cathy 🙏

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

@jebrittan2 @EleonoraSberg @UniofOxford @magdalenoxford @cathynewman It truly is. And thank you 🙏

[J.K. Rowling @jk_rowling]

Watching Mark Stibbe on #Newsnight... his personal testimony of abuse by John Smyth is horrifying and heartbreaking. The scale and severity of Smyth's crimes, and the shameful failure to hold him to account when survivors first came forward, simply beggars belief. #WelbyResign

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

@jk_rowling Thank you Jo. I was saying to my wife earlier, on a bracing walk with the dogs, that if anyone can empathise with orphans at boarding school, it’s you. Appreciate your comment very much, as do my fellow survivors x

[Dr Naomi Murphy @NMPsychologist]

This week saw the publication of the Makin report into the cover up by the Church of England of Barrister John Smythe’s brutal physical and sexual abuse of at least 100 children. Smythe’s abuse of children was known about by the highest members of the Anglican Church since at least 2013 but they failed to investigate until after his death.

One of Smythe’s victims, author @markstibbe , was abused whilst in “the care of” an elite boarding school who clearly failed to keep him safe. Mark joined me and @wolvercoteman on @LockedUpLiving this week. Although he touches on abuse by Smythe in his story, Mark’s account is powerfully centred on the vulnerability to abuse created by dislocation from parents.

#boardingschool #emotionaldeprivation #lovehunger #neglect #abuse #adoption

Watch here:
https://t.co/eirZ1EwQN6

Listen here:
https://t.co/QQamPnit33

Read the transcript here:
https://t.co/JpyKTLxwMY

[Dan Leafe @DanLeafe1]

Have a missed something or have precisely zero @churchofengland bishops made a public call for the resignation of @JustinWelby for his lamentable handling of the Smyth matter? How can the bishops be trusted with safeguarding when they put career/collegiality ahead of it?

[KMac @macnelliebus]

Powerful by @markstibbe in @LockedUpLiving podcast https://t.co/GjiFH0bxtn

[Dr Naomi Murphy @NMPsychologist]

The last taboo.

Earlier this year, @cspencer1508 published his biography in which he shared that he had been sexually abused by a woman. This was such a brave and powerful disclosure. Over the years, we’ve heard many such accounts in therapy but it’s much less rarely spoken about in public. Today’s guest has a similarly powerful story. On @LockedUpLiving this week, me and @wolvercoteman are talking to author @markstibbe who shares his heartbreaking experience of adoption, elite boarding school, emotional deprivation and sexual abuse.

We’re on all major podcasting platforms. You can find links in the comments.

#boardingschool #emotionaldeprivation #lovehunger #neglect #abuse #adoption

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

@PiersCross1 Thank you so much Piers. That’s v v kind

[Dr Naomi Murphy @NMPsychologist]

Elite boarding school, adoption and sexual abuse - all experiences that have the potential to powerfully impact on mental health and shape someone's life. This week's @LockedUpLiving guest, author @markstibbe , shares his heartbreaking journey from shame to recovery with me and @wolvercoteman in this week's episode. It's a powerful listen.

From Wednesday at 6am on all major podcasting platforms.

#boardingschool #emotionaldeprivation #lovehunger #neglect #abuse #adoption

[Mark Stibbe Author @markstibbe]

@A1966Mary @NMPsychologist @LockedUpLiving TY so much for this Marie. I speak a lot about the father wound and boarding school trauma/recovery in my book Home at Last. I didn’t give enough attention to the mother wound so I’m just balancing things. Plus the focus in this interview was on matron/mother.