I was watching the program "curiousity made me ask" between bae.U and the former president. And there was a line he dropped when BaeU told him "I fed and clothed you for 8years" then the ex president replied him that it's NIGERIA that fed and clothed him not BaeU in person.
That's to tell you that these people know exactly what they re doing. You know you re in that office to SERVE and not to be an oppressor or a bully.
You re in that office as a sacrificial lamb to make the life of the citizens better. But No, we re the sacrifice lamb to make their own lives better.
**WE ALL KNOW WHAT WE ALL ARE DOING**
For the lady, they say adulthood is making decisions and taking responsibilities for those decions taken.
So there is no amount of advice anyone will give to her about her decions. She has to be the one to decide. Not her mother, father, boyfriend or this X community.
For me , she has to concentrate in building her life first. Depending on man for a better future is very risky in this present generation.
I have noticed some genuine reason some mothers make regarding their daughters getting married to someone from a richer or wealthy background. In a way you might feel it's selfish but it's bcos of what they re facing financially in their homes as a mother.
They see first hand how difficult it is and they don't want that for their daughters.
@jon_d_doe For this lady, they say adulthood is taking decisions and being responsible for those decisions taken.
There is no amount of advice that will make her take the right or wrong decision