“That man hates you”.
“He humiliated you”.
“He embarrassed you”.
No. You guys are obsessed with trying to make women internalize the poor character of these abusive men.
That man hates himself, and tried to make your problem.
That man humiliated himself and tried to make your problem.
That man embarrassed himself, and tried to make it problem.
“I hate Valentine’s Day because I’m single, it’s so commercialized, blah blah blah”
Skill issue.
Celebrate your friends. Bring your coworkers treats. Call your mom. Cook for yourself. Quit undervaluing platonic love and then wondering why you don’t have more of it in your life.
Reminder: ICE has ZERO jurisdiction to stop or arrest people for traffic violations or disorderly conduct. They have no authority to stop you from recording them. They’re not cops. They’re immigration agents. They can’t execute a woman because they think she’s a “fucking bitch.”
being vulnerable enough to tell people how much you care about them is infinitely more brave than pretending to be above love and using edginess as a method of self-preservation
Everyone is. That’s why the non-avoidant are so frustrated. The point is doing it anyway. Love is courage and courage is the presence of fear and the willingness to show up regardless.
Just like everything else we commit to in life.