Si alguna vez te dejo de hablar y te elimino de mi vida, espero que entiendas lo difĂcil que fue para mĂ. Tengo la costumbre de aferrarme a lo bueno de las personas sin importar lo malas que sean para mĂ, asĂ que si no te busco es porque me empujaste mĂĄs allĂĄ de mis lĂmites.
I did not deserve to be abandoned by the person I loved because of their inability to meet me where I needed emotionally. I deserved someone to stand by my side and work through the hard times together.
disappearing on your partner after conflict when they need clarity or closeness is not giving yourself space. it is emotional abuse. the anxiety and abandonment wounds it creates are very real