I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!
Being a girl is wanting to save money but also wanting your hair done, nails done, gym membership, skincare, cute outfits, and a little treat every day 😭
Another form of low self esteem is definitely being too available to people who have shown you countless times that they lack a sense of urgency and enthusiasm towards you. I know its hard but regulate your nervous system to calm down.
I am NOT a strict girlfriend tuu mna shame and I will never be 😂
Do what you want dawg. We’re grown and if you tell me you’re somewhere, that’s your business if you’re lying.
I’m not going to act like some crazy person and keep blowing up your phone to confirm your whereabouts.
so i read a bit on denise zimba’s situation, she divorced jakob bc he allegedly had an affair w her best friend mpumi, was financially/emotionally abusive and she walked in on him masturbating while texting other women w a child in the room. that’s why she kept the kids in SA.