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[HEIS @real_heis]

One of my guy friends who's married mistakenly had sex outside his marriage.

He got the girl pregnant. Paid for the dowry, paid for everything, and he decided to marry her as a second wife. His first wife agreed because she didn't want a b@stard outside. She was a keeper.❤️

But guess what? I met him last week, and while we were talking, I casually asked him about his wives, and he goes, "I came to your house to play video games (FIFA) to cool off." He looked extremely worried. 😟

I wondered why he needed to cool off. I thought it was just one of these normal wives and polygamous family issues at home. But guess what he told me? 💔

He said he walked in on them having sex (the first and second wife)....

[Chidimma @The_Chidimma]

Who you have a child with is even more important than who you marry.

If you marry someone and have no child with them before you separate, it can eventually feel as though you never met them.

If you have a child with someone, even if you don’t marry them, your lives are permanently connected. Be careful.

[Ahmad @AhmadxVibez]

At my wife's funeral, everyone shook my hand calling me a "saint". Two days later, I unlocked her phone to pay the hospital bills and realized I had never been a saint to her. I was merely "useful".

I am 38 years old. For the past six months, I stopped living my own life to save hers.

[Gracie @Graciemail1]

We saw each other, fell in love, got married, created memories, and had a child together. Things didn’t work out, so why can’t you walk away with what you brought into the marriage and I do the same? Why must you leave with what I spent years working for? The law is unfair to men

[Ada @adanonso_]

“Sometimes I think a lot of modern relationships are failing because people want the benefits of traditional love without the responsibilities that came with it.

A man is still expected to protect, provide, lead, reassure, plan dates, pay bills, stay loyal, communicate properly, remain emotionally available, be ambitious, be patient, be romantic, and somehow still never complain.

But the moment he expects peace, respect, support, accountability, or any form of traditional partnership in return, suddenly it becomes ‘controlling’ or ‘misogynistic.’

You cannot keep calling every expectation oppression while still expecting commitment, sacrifice, and security from the other side. Relationships stop working when one person’s duties remain intact while the other person’s duties become optional depending on mood or trends online.

And before people start shouting, this is not even about women cooking or submitting. It’s deeper than that. It’s about reciprocity.

A lot of people today want a relationship where they are constantly accommodated but never challenged. They want freedom without responsibility, soft life without contribution, emotional security without emotional discipline, and partnership without compromise.

Everybody wants to be loved ‘unconditionally,’ but nobody wants to hear the uncomfortable truth that successful marriages are heavily built on discipline, sacrifice, emotional control, and sometimes doing things you don’t feel like doing.

Social media has convinced too many people that relationships should only serve their personal happiness at every second. The moment stress, sacrifice, inconvenience, or discomfort appears, people start talking about ‘choosing themselves.’

No wonder commitment is collapsing.”

[Viktor Benson @viktorbensonyt]

A man can sleep with a woman because she has nice body

Infact a man’s first point of attraction is physical and sexual

A woman’s first point of attraction is emotional and mental

A woman in an ideal form can’t sleep with except you establish an emotional connection with her

A man in an ideal form can’t sleep with a woman he doesn’t consider attractive sexually

Any woman who can sleep with any man without emotional connection is just a wh0re

Any man who can sleep with any woman without sexual attractiveness is a mentally sick

[STUNNER @Cr7Godbrand]

You walk away during an argument-
psychological abuse.

You stay and argue - verbal abuse.

You go silent to avoid escalation- emotional abuse(silent treatment)

You raise your voice - domestic violence and abuse.

You defend yourself - reactive abuse.

You check where the money is going-financial abuse

There is absolutely nothing a man can do nowadays without eventually being labeled the bad guy by women.

[Pharm. Unique @celebritypharm]

The moment you wake up and realize your pillow is drenched with saliva, don’t wave it off too quickly.

I know drooling while asleep is a common thing that can happen due to minor reasons like your sleeping position.

But the thing is that, there are other serious causes of drooling in your sleep.

You can find out below

[Mazi Nathan @rukky_nate]

There’s a difference between being rich and being wealthy.

Rich is income. Wealthy is assets.

A rich person earns big and spends big.

A wealthy person owns things that generate income while they sleep.

Think lands, stocks, a business, investments.

Most Nigerians are chasing rich —the salary, the title, the car that matches the office.

Very few are building wealthy.

You can earn five hundred thousand naira a month and retire with nothing.

You can earn two fifty and retire with something meaningful.

The difference is never how much you earn. It is always how much you keep and what you do with what you keep.

Chase assets. Not appearances.

[ThatBlessedGirl @BlessedGirl001]

Before I got married, I saw other people get married and how they had marital issues, and how they handle them.

In my little life, I grew up with guys. Lots of them. I understand the financial stress and the mental pain it does to them, yet they don't get to speak out but keep grinding. Doing what it takes to provide and stay liquid financially.

I've seen how financial bankruptcy has dealt with marriages. I understand what it's like to be up there today and down at the lowest bottom tomorrow. It affects the man, his wife, and also the kids' academics.

The worst part, some send their wife and kids to the village while he moves into a one room apartment in "Face me i slap you" house. You will never know that that man was once a DON in the business world. A wrong investment, business, or wrong financial decision without proper research dropped him that low. Yes It is human to make mistakes, but some mistakes can be costly.

Life can come at you after marriage. This is why I love my husband that much to be a solid financial defense he can fall back on. That man loves me so much, and I'm very much concerned about his finances. This is why I keep doing business investment, land investments, stock market investments, and also earning from my job.

I'm doing this to keep him afloat, that no matter what happens, he has something tangible to fall to, on a rainy day. I am this invested in my husband because he loves me that much. There's nothing he's holding back from me. Financially, i know every amount he has on his 4 bank accounts and ATM pin. I have access to any of them. He leads me aright, he communicates, he's wise, and pushes me to be more. He is that man. He leads while I submit. There's absolutely nothing i wouldn't do for him.

I'm not a "perfect" wife, I have my issues. But then again, I focus on his strength, and he focuses on mine too while we work on our weaknesses to be better as we grow together.

Your marriage can be heaven on earth. It only depends on You and who you choose to do life with. When you both are aligned, and love is in the center, there's nothing you wouldn't do for each other. There are good marriages out there. I'm telling you for a fact 100%.

[HeritageWife @unseriousguru]

“My body is my body in marriage,” “I must give my husband consent to touch me.”

But when you’re h0rny, you forget yourself and hop on your husband like someone who hasn’t eaten for days.

Why are you people like this?

Is his body not also his body?

You feel he agrees to make love to you whenever you want because he can’t resist séx and is always ready for it?

He can also tell you he isn’t in the mood the same way you tell him, then turn his back and sleep, but he always gives in, even when he’s not in the mood, because of what they call sacrifice.

Stop thinking your honeypot can be reserved when you don’t feel like it, while your husband’s own is always at attention because you know he’d definitely give in.

No be so, fine girl. You better change.

Shalom!

[HeritageWife @unseriousguru]

For me, marriage isn’t just an achievement, it’s a very big achievement.

I never went to Shiloh to pray for a husband. Neither did I ever dress like my miracle before I got a good man. I’m so thankful to God for that.

My life became more purposeful and less stressful when I got married.

I started a family with a kind man, which I’m forever grateful for.

I have someone I can look up to, someone who leads me. I have a peaceful home that money can never equate to.

Marriage never “paused” my life or stopped me from becoming what I wanted to be. Instead, it made me enhance skills I thought were impossible. I became better in my craft.

One can be doing gen!tal meet and greet and praying at the same time without feeling ashamed or guilty. You can’t feel that way if you’re single. Trust me.

Marriage gave me the privilege of being called a mother.

Ah, God. I’m so grateful.

Shalom!

[Ọ̶b̶̶a̶ @Obajimi]

Fornicators, adulterers and murderers are in Church again this morning to lift their hypocritical hands and hearts to the high heavens in vain again.

[UNCLE @MrOlibaba]

The moment you resign and your colleagues hear you're leaving, the first thing many of them ask is, “Where are you moving to?” “Which company?” “How much are they paying there?” "Are they giving you next level grade"?.

Most times, it is not even because they genuinely care about your growth or happiness.

They just want enough details to measure your next move against your current job and decide whether, in their opinion, you’re upgrading or making a mistake.

[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

You cannot rescue everybody from their pain.

Some wounds are tied to childhood, regrets, fear, guilt, or loneliness that only they can face themselves.

Be gentle with people. Many are carrying heavy things quietly.

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[The Odin @TheOdin_II]

Fighting for your marriage does not mean fighting the person your spouse is cheating with.

That person is not the one who made vows to you.

Your husband or wife did.

Too many people waste their energy dragging the side person while the real betrayal sits comfortably inside the marriage. The anger gets directed outside because it hurts less than facing the truth at home.

Yes, the third party may be wrong. But they are not the foundation of your marriage. Your spouse is.

If your partner is lying, sneaking around, disrespecting you, and breaking trust, then that is the real issue. Fighting strangers will not fix a broken relationship. It will not rebuild trust. It will not restore respect.

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[TheHost @TheHost_]

My grandma had a little brother. His name was Michael. Grandma worshipped him.

She did everything for him but breastfeed him.

When Michael was 3, he fell into an old well in their yard and drowned.

Whenever she told the story to us grandkids, Grandma blamed Michael for being a toddler. “I told him to get off! He stamped his feet instead.”

[Christy( mother of many Generations) @itzchristunique]

V!rg!nia is self cleansing yes, but those bushes around it doesn't clean themselves sweetheart.

Those tiny hairs around your an√s doesn't clean it's self.
Wash them properly and trim them off..

Your upper ear that's close to the hair on your head has never felt a touch of your hands..

Under your boobies are not self cleansing too, raise them up and wash properly..

These places need your touch darling..
Hope I'm not too harsh?

[Mazi Nathan @rukky_nate]

Nigeria has more churches per square kilometer than hospitals.

We have more pastors than doctors.

We are statistically one of the most religious nations on earth.

We have 5 of the biggest churches by capacity on earth.

We are also one of the most hungry, most poor, most suffering. We have been binding and casting for 60 years.

But the poverty is still here. The government corruption is still here.

The bad roads are still here. NEPA with its inability to provide light is still here.

The double digit inflation is still here. The worsening insecurity ravaging the country is still here.

My question is:

Why is the most religious, and most prayerful country in the world keeps producing the most preventable suffering?

Bottom line:

we can’t pray and bind our way out of suffering.

[Heart Mattaz by Rita @HeartMattaz]

Being decent is not "pick me"

Being respectful is not "pick me"

Being transparent is not "pick me"

Being a virgin is not "pick me"

Staying loyal is not "pick me"

Cooking for your man is not "pick me"

Buying a thing for your man is not a "pick me"

Being a submissive woman is not "pick me"

Being a supportive wife to your husband is not "pick me"

Taking responsibility for your actions is not "Pick me"

HeartMattaz