@Autistic_Lauren No, but I do have issues with name blindness. I can see a face I met 10 years ago and remember their likes, dislikes, family connections, career, fears, phobias, and vivid details of times we spent together….
But don’t ask me to remember the name of someone I met 5 mins ago.
I don’t do “roleplay hypnosis”. It’s perfectly valid if that’s what you enjoy, but It’s not something I do…
The concept of mindlessness and control being the destination for hypnosis is not what I do.
It’s a tool to achieve powerful outcomes, not an end in and of itself.
@WillHartley1980 This is an excellent question!
much would remain the same.
I’m still an empathic, curious, methodical and supportive person who would continue to use my skills/experience to help people get the best out of themselves and their lives.
It would just look about 1/4 less kinky.
@aphotomama Somewhat frequently.
For me, it’s a mark of my D/S relationships when my submissive is so well trained that they can submit to me by taking the reins whilst I’m bound/sometimes gagged.
I need to let go sometimes, but enjoy creating the structure in which that can happen.
Tip for submissives:
Many dominants - particularly in the hypno scene - like it best when they are able to “take” something from you, so try arriving with thoughts, opinions, desires, etc.
You can be very willing to submit, but don’t arrive a blank slate with no personality.
@thegaylabyrinth Can i respectfully suggest then - as someone who dos both kinky and non kinky person development - that you not necessarily look to an erotic, hypnotic solution to something that could be solved more mundanely?
Otherwise, you may be muddying problem solving with pleasure.
Tip for Dominants:
Use multiple types of signposting with your Sub, and make sure it’s both agreed and trained before play begins in Ernest. No use only having “say red” if your sub can’t speak because you are tickling them whilst they wear a ball gag.
Communication is key.
@WillHartley1980 Never fails to amaze me how mind blown some people get when you point out that BDSM/Kink and sex are not the same thing, and don’t have to intermix.
Tip for Dominants:
Knowing and working on yourself is the best way to long term, fulfilling BDSM practice.
Do you have to be perfect? No
But a lot of repressed emotion often gets unknowingly channeled into a submissive, and it’s not good for a healthy long term dynamic.
As you can see, @its_rexparker finds his situation extremely amusing… perhaps that means I should be meaner to him… 😏
Go watch part two:
https://t.co/PqAOCAeNEo
https://t.co/1nbH9hORvI