For the love of God,
CALL YOUR ESTATE ATTORNEY TODAY AND MAKE SURE YOUR SHIT IS UP TO DATE, MAKE SURE EVERYTHING IS IN LINE, AND DO SO AT LEAST ANNUALLY.
Yes, it's expensive, but trust me. People get awful when land/money/possessions are involved.
Consider this: 89.6% of American farmers do not make the majority of their money from farming. This needs to change.
We need to create a fairer, more transparent food system, support value-added opportunities, & build new markets & streams of income for producers.