The aunts who could cook would bring side dishes.
Uncles who couldn’t cook brought like ice, beverages n cutlery
Whoever at work usually gave money cause they didn’t have time to be at no store.
The women would usually help with serving so everyone good
You wouldn’t know what your parents were doing cause that’s adults business. YOU just showed up n got food. But as you got older youd see the planning and contributions everyone brought ( especially as a girl)
This has never been a thing and y’all keep trying to make shit up lol
Yes, that’s fine to help out.. but 90s babies Parents were not paying their parent to fucking cook. We all remember.
N now that the hosting stuff lowkey getting put on me. Ya better bring something or you gets nothing lmao n I mean that . You know how much work, time n effort go into planning these dinners
Idk what to call it but all the preparation and stuff for mother nature to just rain on the parade? The roads by the beaches look a mess. And now everything all wet n slippery 🥴 ain no perfect round here.
They asking yall to send money rather than cook cause YALL CANT! Lmaoo it’s really that simple. The people who can cook will never be asked to bring money. Yall deadass cause make educated inferences lmaoo
This has proven why so many families no longer have reunions. The “new adults” ain’t about shit! In their 30s baffled that they’re being asked to contribute for the holidays. If you’re not bringing a pan of food, $20 is the least you can do. Mac and cheese costs $40 to make.