honestly, if u know how difficult and how long it took some people to recover their peace of mind and happiness, you'll understand why they shut all doors at any slight discovery of toxicity, and also why they can be so picky about who they allow in their lives.
Introverts love sitting alone in their house all day doing nothing. Eating snacks, watching movies, strolling around, listening to their fav songs. You may find it meaningless, but that's what gives them meaning. The ordinary. The little things. But you won't get it.
When someone gives you some info that would have broken you again if they had told you 4 or 5 months ago and you all you can say is "I believe it" and not feel anything. That's some real growth and healed shit right there!
I have not had the urge to go out and defend myself or tell my side of the story because the people that know me, know me but the more BS I hear that's being said is making it very hard for me to hold back anymore...