Marriage is fake and Motherhood is real.
Wives are fake and Mothers are real.
The smallest family unit is Mother and Child, not "Mother, Father, and Child"
Single motherhood is the human biological / evolutionary default not pair bonding with a man.
(although human beings ARE capable of doing this, and frequently do this -- THIS being pair bonding with men)
NOTE: Single motherhood here DOES NOT mean ISOLATED single motherhood, which is not ideal for humans.
The human default is Cooperative Breeding / Cooperative Alloparenting, which is why....
Extended families are the human biological / evolutionary default not Nuclear families.
Ladies, let me give you free marriage advice.
On no account should you allow your husband to serve himself soup. I am speaking from experience.
Any day I cook a soup or one of those meals my husband really likes, I make sure I am the one serving it. Because if I mistakenly fall asleep from being tired and this man serves himself…
May God help the pot. By the time I wake up, the soup level has reduced by half.
And don’t even ask about the meat.
The chicken, beef, goat meat, assorted… everything has mysteriously disappeared. What’s left is rich, nutritious soup for me to admire.
The funniest part is that he will confidently tell me, I didn’t even eat that much.
Sir……The evidence is inside the empty pot.
Please tell me I am not the only wife living with a professional protein hunter. 🤣
An interviewer asked Maduka Okoye an Igbo word everyone should know, and He confidently replied; “OYA” which means to come.
First and last Igbo name, and you don’t know “bia”.
This word is the only reason I kinda understand when black Americans talk about Africans not understanding their struggle.
Cause if you call me the N word, it really does nothing to me. Like sure I know it’s a bad word & you shouldn’t say it, but it evokes zero emotion from me cause I have no trauma, memory or feelings attached to the word. Might as well call me an idiot.
Your first post wasn’t about established people dating established people. It was about a woman waiting for a keke “snubbing” a man in a ₦150m car, as though his wealth should have affected her response. 🤷🏽♀️
Stop lying please.. That’s not what you said.
Stop with the gaslighting, some of us are literate and can read undertones (not that you were really subtle about the nonsense you were implying)
We are all in Nigeria, most of us are poor. Economy is hard on men and women.
In this poverty, women want established men.
Established men are now also wanting established women.
I am not broke shaming anyone, just using an analogy to paint the shift in what men chase now.
@therealchilotam@YouTube Tell me why in this video’s comment section (about intellectualism mind you), there is a man talking about “most women should marry in their 20s” like bro how did we get there ??🥴😂 …
This is such a bizarre way of thinking.
So because you’re driving a 150 million car, every woman is automatically obligated to stop, smile, and entertain your advances?
It never occurs to some of you that she just isn’t interested. What a remarkably silly premise.
I hate when dumb people accuse people of being unintelligent 🥴
Because if you can’t understand how “I am a student” implies that they don’t work then you’re the one with comprehension issues . You want everything to be spelt out ?
Nigerians have comprehension problem. They asked you what you do for work and you say "i'm a student". Then a lot of you are saying she's right. What happened to " I don't have job". Then if he ask why, then she can say because she's still in school.
Iyinoluwa Aboyeji, co-founder of Flutterwave, reveals that the President of Nigeria doesn't know what is going on in the country.
He says President's reality is constructed.
He's in a motorcade driving so fast, so he can't see the surrounding, his phone is with an aide, and he doesn't read newspapers.
He has security briefings and that's all he knows.
The book was set in the 90s.
Why am I seeing wigs?
Why is Odunlade in an office ?
Baba Segi sold wood/planks at a sawmill
Baba Segi & his wives are not bougie.
When I see stupid takes that have been translated to English, I try to think that it is the translation that is wrong … cause surely you’re not an Indonesian bird brained woman
pov mendaki dengan orang yang tepat:
dari 15 orang (10 cowok, 5 cewek), tebak ceweknya ngapain? ngga ngapa-ngapain, tinggal terima beres! 😭
bangun tenda, masak, beres-beres sampah, sampai bongkar tenda semuanya di-handle sama cowok-cowoknya. bener-bener definisi men act like men.
sepanjang jalur nggak pernah ditinggal, selalu ditanya "aman ga?", "cape ga?", bahkan ditawarin bawain carrier + dituntun pas ada yang sakit. beruntung banget punya circle naik gunung kayak gini 🥺❤️✨ kalian ada ga temen main yang kayak gini?