It’s weird to think that the things that matter to me now probably won’t in ~4 years despite causing me sm pain
I spose everything still leaves marks on you memory wise
This used to make me really sad, as it made me think nothing of what happened mattered, but now I’m not so sure
@masculinegull@flvcovlquimistv Why do so many white men have this weird cuckoldry complex? Do you guys feel inferior to poc men? Why must everything be about impregnating “your women”? Having sex with “your women”?
@izisaive@melisilawi I think it would be rather dishonest to say that a trans woman being discriminated against bc of their status as a woman is experiencing anything other than misogyny. Similarly one can be 100% African and be white-passing and never experience anti-black racism.
@flvcovlquimistv When a man has nothing going for him, he turns to nationalism.
I think people forget that what we call countries are just plot of land with borders. God didn’t declare Germany as belonging to the Caucasians; it is not as if they sprung out of German soil like plants.
@izisaive@melisilawi Do you think trans people just wake up one day and are “like lemme be trans”. For many it is a life-or-death thing and medically necessary. Why must one be female to experience misogyny?
Why so nasty? Yk everyone on the internet is a person just like you right?
@izisaive@melisilawi it is pretty obvious when people say “male socialization” they mean internalizing stereotypically asocial masc-coded tendencies
when I say twomen are not male socialized I mean they did not experience male-typical socialization, not that they aren’t a male that is socialized
@PISCESPRADA Why do people larp having struggles like this
“Oh no my family allows me to create meaning on my own instead of being neurotically fixated on grades” just take the W and keep it pushing
@izisaive@melisilawi “Gay men will never not be more oppressed than females”
Please point to where I said that in my reply.
>you stupid whore
I’d really hope you’re not a feminist saying this. Kinda misogynistic don’t you think? What a nasty thing to say someone you’ve never met.
@beforrealbestie@melisilawi I'm curious about where you got these ideas from, since in my experience(actually being around trans ppl) I've never perceived these strange dynamics of dominance youve come up with here. I'm pretty sure that this is all just word salad to say "trans women are men and dangerous!"
@beforrealbestie@melisilawi I was talking about the way some tmen do the "hey! hey! im still female, I'm basically 50% girl!" thing, undermining their own identity.
I dont know wtf youre on about with this physicality shit.
Also, the idea that twomen just go around intimdating cis women is bizzarre.
@melisilawi whats even more damning is the fact that aint none of yall saying this shit in community with trans people and it SHOWS
just talking out your ass based on what youve seen through internet discourse
@melisilawi The real issue with this video is that it believes that male privilege and by proxy male socialization is some uniform thing that is bestowed upon all males automatically as if the average trans woman wasn’t getting the faggot treatment/socialization.
@frashing7@melisilawi I never said otherwise. saying "trans women need to deconstruct their male privilege" is stupid bc it presumes that a) this privilege exists for trans women b) that male socialization is uniform and c) that trans women, passing or not, are treated identically to cis men
@melisilawi I love how she acting like she bestowing some magic rhetoric that is being falsely construed as transphobic when most of the people agreeing with her on this very post deadass thing trans women are men in dresses like??
@LRHN_Cash Same people that complain oh we as black people need to get our shit together will nod their heads to wild stuff like this as if it isnt part of the issue... yall should be ashamed fr
@LRHN_Cash black people will watch psychotic shit like this and say sum "I dont see nothin wrong" like theres smthn wrong wit you too
fact that shit like is normalized is so sad