I had lots of mixed feelings reading this. I remember when I arrived Canada, I asked hubby, all these years you've been alone, how's sex life? He said he has a lady that pops in and out when he needs sex. I started scanning all his friends and one woman, a bit older than him, she is rich, pure breed caucasian. I noticed that whenever he says he's coming, she will make nice dishes of food, veggies, and upon arrival, they always kissed right before me, I'll just sigh... because he once lived in France and Montreal, so he speaks French fluently, and he said that's the culture, guest kissed, Lagos babe wey no Sabi. Meanwhile, whenever she calls him to come visit, I'll calmly say, aww, I'll love to go with you, she cooks nice food, I miss her meal. So, he doesnt visit her alone anymore.
So, she asked him on one of our visit, Is it that mattress in your room that you and your wife still sleeps on? Gbam! My Lagos mind arose" chaiii" she's the one. 😆 🤣 😂
He just smiled. I focused on the chicken, well cooked. Then she said, well, I have a new king size mattress, I can give you. Immediately, I said, Thanks peret. We will come pick it up.
Then rather than call him, she's always calling me, to come pick this and that up, then she became a very very close friend of the family. My kids starts calling her grandma peret. Oneday, I told him, for her to know how the mattress feels, hmmm, I'm sure the deal has ended now sha?? 😆 🤣
Truth is, a woman who wants to stay in her marriage will endure so much but it is not a good place for any woman to be.
Not for someone like me because I will consider it disrespectful if he had continued embracing her emotionally.
No woman should be made to go through that stress in her marriage, not when she's doing her best to make her marriage work.
Men should respect their wives enough to set healthy boundaries around opposite sex. Having a woman that will give you all" is priceless.
Not all will stay, those who talks about it or complain aren't morally unwise or weak. Some women are fine with polygamy but not all women.
Know who you marry and please be an intentional man in your marriage.
She deserves to tell a story of you never cheating on her too.
Peace.
When Obidi started OnlyFans her subscription was 100k a month. But as no customers she dropped the price until it was as low as 10k. I was one of the 7 useless men that paid. After 2 hours I already asked for a refund. Never seen that kind of squeezed obo in my life. Tufia!
Dear @PeterObi,
The social capital of the Obidients that you bank on, can only do so much.
The gaps of YOUR OWN media/ watertight PR kinetic team, is obvious.
Also, the Obidient movement needs a structural frame - even VDM ratels have a structure.
Please prioritize.
The fact that Kenneth Okonkwo thought it was wise to accuse Peter Obi of collecting bribe of ₦10M shows how much of a stupid person he is. Kenneth Okonkwo is beyond stupid. Not even $10M or £10M or something, but ₦10M. Kenneth bụ ezigbo nwa bingo, dawg. What a shame!