And this goes for finding friends too. The point Iโm trying to make is to put yourself out there and talk to people you want to know. Donโt wait for them to come up to you. You never know what may come of it
This is the only way Iโve been able to find lasting connections. I have yet to turn a hinge match into anything worthwhile. Meanwhile Iโve been able to walk up to a stranger, strike up a conversation, 1 month later he was my boyfriend
And that is so out of character for me. Iโm not naturally extroverted or conversational. The few times Iโve mustered up the courage to talk to someone I find interesting, it has blossomed into something great