Being unmarried doesn’t scare me. Losing my peace just to say I have a husband does.
Marriage is only a flex when the partnership is actually better than the freedom you gave up.
Until you’re married, you may never understand why some men cheat. A man can love his wife, provide, protect and stay faithful for years, yet slowly become a stranger in his own bedroom. When intimacy turns into a favor, a negotiation, or something he has to beg for, rejection starts to hurt differently.
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My marriage counselor just revealed the brutal truth about why 90% of couples stop having sex.
It has absolutely nothing to do with physical attraction, getting older, or having kids.
You can't fix how people perceive you. You can be your most honest self and still be misunderstood. Nobody sees you for who you actually are. People see you through their own experiences, insecurities, and expectations. Let them. And stop trying to change what they think of you. Protect your peace, and just stay true to yourself. That's all that matters. Let them think whatever they want.
Date somebody who actually wants to experience LIFE with you. Not just dinner and sex. Museums, cooking classes, festivals, pottery, concerts, bookstores, road trips, EVERYTHING .
Ever since I’ve encountered African spirituality; Ive been so much happier. I see people beyond the physical, I respect everyone’s choices even if it doesn’t align to mine. Truly Love P’tah for giving us free will to love or not lol 🫶🏾
If you can heal from a breakup without being in a rebound situationship or using another person to fill the void, you’re incredibly strong. Healing alone is one of the toughest things you'll ever face, but it's also one of the most transformative.