Today, I want to pause and be fair.
Finally, Pastor Chris Okafor publicly apologized. Not with excuses. Not with deflection. Not by blaming enemies or spiritual attacks. But openly, humbly, and in front of everyone.
That matters a lot.
In a space where many “fathers of faith” would rather threaten, manipulate narratives, deny accusations, or spiritualize accountability, choosing humility is not a small thing. It takes strength to say, “I was wrong.” It takes maturity to ask for forgiveness. And it takes courage to lower yourself when your position allows you to hide behind titles.
Even a child understands this simple truth: When you break something, the right thing to do is to say sorry. Yet many spiritual fathers across Africa, especially those with huge congregations struggle with this.
This is why I acknowledge Okafor today. Even though this moment does not magically erase the past. It does not cancel the pain of those who were hurt. And it does not mean accountability should stop or be ignored.
But it does show something important, that change is possible. It shows that a human being can pause, reflect, and choose humility over pride. And when humility appears, even briefly, it reminds us that repentance is still within reach.
Accountability and growth are not enemies. One corrects the past, the other shapes the future. We must hold space for both - without confusion, without compromise.
In my experience, most Nigerian prophets or pastor, despite serious accusations - have never done this. Most of them will even double down, attack critics and claim persecution. Very few or none take responsibility.
So when someone does, it should be said clearly: this is the right step.
And for that reason, regardless of our differences, Chris Okafor has earned my respect today…as we wait for more credible victims to come forward and tell us their real experiences unlike this blackmail saga of Doris.