Btw in your 20’s and 30’s you’ll start rediscovering the niche interests and hobbies you had as a kid. It’s very important you revisit them. Your younger self was actually on to something
plump doll-like cheeks are venusian. hair with curls is venusian. a little extra body fat is venusian. venus supports and adores softness and curves. so who cares if these traits aren’t celebrated in current beauty standards, when goddess aphrodite herself isn’t bound by them