You know, the human mind is amazing and thatโs why I do social science research.
This man right here thinks he said something that he thinks is right and true, but he locked his comments. Why?
Because his true conscience disagrees with his selfish self.
Selfish part of him: โThe presidentโs bold and forward-thinking reforms have put our economy firmly on a path of sustainable growth.โ
His conscience: โKai, this thing I just typed isnโt true; the lived experiences of millions of Nigerians say otherwise, and they wouldnโt be happy with me. So, what do I do? Iโll post it anyways, for selfish reasons, but lock the comments.โ
We all know what weโre doing.
I'm very conscious of privileges, that is why I give realistic advice. I know it is biting you to call me poor because of my opinion, because broke shaming is your tactics for silencing reason and family values. But I'm not poor by any Nigerian metrics.
Before advising people, always remember that we are a poor country with majority living in gross poverty. You are too poor for the standard you are setting for yourself and the burden you want to carry. Many two income households are struggling. Don't overwhelm yourself on your average income when you have a working partner you can share this burden with. What happens to her and the kids if you die or develop stroke?
Please don't look at rich people on social media and try to live up to theor lifestyle. You can't carry the responsibilities they carry. Life is in stages and men are in sizes. Grow with the wife of your youth, in love, in responsibilities, in kindness, in mutual trust.
I want the best for you and I want you to stay alive. Stop tying your ego to money and how much responsibilities you can carry alone. It is not a flex. Ire รก kรกrรญ oo