This but unironically because all of the genetically capable men never had to strategize or formulate how to get a gf they just went with the natural flow of life and it just happened for them. Self improvement is only a concept for doomed incels for some reason
@oubagaku Well, you don't.
Being perceived as weird or creepy means that women find you unattractive.
It's the Halo/Horns effect where people will assume your personality traits based on your looks.