Gents, if you are dating a good woman, she will stop you from spending on stupid things such as dates. You are not in hollywood or America. Dont be bullied into showoff love where she takes pics as if she is alone to post so other men hit her inbox. Invest and build wealth!
@tiidrotafrikka2 Ndukuuzani, manipulation olo wa zaka 30 yo you can easily do that. But can't easily find someone innocent, less traumatized etc at 30😂.
No one is running from "akazi okhwima mzeru." We just have firsthand experience with their pasts. You cannot live a completely chaotic youth, put on an activist cape at 30, and try to shame men into settling for you. We are not intimidated; we just have actual standards.
USAID money somehow facilitated single motherhood and family breakdown in Africa. Those guys who used to receive huge sums of money from USAID through NGOs were out here living recklessly, driving big cars and moving like there were no consequences. I even know one ED of a certain NGO who used to have eight women. When USAID funding was cut off, he quietly relocated to Canada alone. 😰
My father once told me "once you start paying a girl’s tuition, she stops seeing you as a partner and she starts seeing as her dad. She’ll appreciate you like a father, then go find a boyfriend her own age at varsity."