The irony is that the man complaining about another man being in the women's bathroom is also standing in the women's bathroom making little girls cry.
@abgenommene@bunnytangereen Never once did I say it was the norm, it is just not as uncommon as everyone is acting. And I think acting like it doesn’t exist won’t do anything to make more of it.
@SanguisKultus@Baylorftw2024@user7643789327 Yeaa, didn’t acknowledge it at the time but I still recognize there’s “unofficial” or other ways segregation has remained and acting like the power wouldn’t stay with those people is short sighted
@abgenommene@bunnytangereen I’m sorry but I don’t want to resign myself to the idea that we will NEVER get rid of the patriarchy, or white supremacy, etc… It seems like just an excuse to participate in the same behaviors I’m supposedly against 🤷♂️
@abgenommene@bunnytangereen Not every man wants the life the patriarchy tells us to, and we don’t want to attract women who believe in patriarchal standards.
@abgenommene@bunnytangereen I never said in the same way, if by that you mean same degree.
There are men who fight against patriarchy like there are white people against racism.
Using that same logic, why would any woman do anything for herself when if she does something for men she can be “rewarded.”
@Baylorftw2024@user7643789327 I get why they want it, it’s like when black people talk about having spaces without white people, but I just really don’t think we want to open the pandora’s box of “women only” or “black people only” when we still have a racist patriarchal society…
@Cherrysakurabl1@miahblink@FrutillaArriba@bunnytangereen Men are also capable of dressing “girly,” so are they not allowed to go to VS to shop for themselves?
Are you asking their pronouns before you decide to be made uncomfortable by their presence?
@Cherrysakurabl1@miahblink@FrutillaArriba@bunnytangereen I fear you’re dumb.
A man can be bi and be in VS with his girlfriend. If queer men were never part of the conversation how do you explain that?
The trans woman thing was a separate point; not every trans person is passing, you might think you saw a “man” in VS but you might have-