marry the one who makes you feel safe, reassures you so that you feel secure, hypes you so much that it boosts your confidence in ANYTHING you do, holds you accountable, pushes you BOTH to grow, values you too much to lie, lifts your name when not around & loves you purely
unpopular but probably popular opinion: eventually you hit that age where the person you’re with should be prioritized over fun & friends. in order to grow forward in a relationship you first need to grow together as a team so if they’re your future approach & treat them as such