@k1iila If you want to get away from this mentality, the most important thing you can do is to always keep yourself calm, don't let anything get you excited, and find someone who will make you feel better, thanks.
@rf107jssjnsb Above all, first you have to believe in yourself, then you can easily believe in people. If you ever want to trust someone, don't have any doubts about him, then you will see inshallah, then your love will increase. May Allah fulfill your hopes, Ameen.