turns out, reading voraciously, moving your body, loving people without keeping score, protecting your solitude, chasing nothing but your own growth, and occasionally staying out too late with people who make you laugh until it hurts is not a bad way to build a life.
Uncommon advice: If you don't know what to pursue in life right now. Pursue yourself. Pursue becoming the healthiest, happiest, most healed, most present, most confident version of yourself. Then the right path will reveal itself.
Ages 25–30 are really tough. You’re dealing with a shrinking friend group,aging parents,fixing the financial mistakes from ur early 20s,your career and your health. You’ve gotta find time to heal your mind. You just have to.
surrender. afraid of what loving you would require of them. fear of being seen clearly, of being open and vulnerable. I believe you can sense when someone will rearrange your whole life (positively) and to some? that pushes them away. it takes strength to soften!
hoje é 6/6, portal energético, então pode ser que você sinta:
• dor de cabeça, pressão no 3° olho ou no topo da cabeça
• sintomas gripais, como dores no corpo ou tosse
• sensação de vazio ou falta de sentido na vida
• sonolência ou cansaço fora do comum
when i'm mad from my perspective but i can also see their perspective so now i’m carrying double the emotional weight and being eaten away by my anger and empathy
all relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. Repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change
Sometimes I think what we mistake for wanting a relationship is actually just craving connection. Wanting someone you can always call and they’ll gladly pick up. Someone that checks on you, wants to hear your voice as much as you want to hear theirs. Those random conversations, late night calls, laughing over nothing, telling someone about your day, feeling emotionally close to someone… sometimes that’s really all you’re craving.
Not necessarily the pressure of a relationship itself, but the comfort of having “your person.” Someone you can talk to effortlessly, be vulnerable with, and feel emotionally safe around. Maybe that’s why a lot of us think we want relationships so badly, when deep down we just miss connection, consistency, closeness, and being genuinely cared for.
Bc sometimes loving someone also means accepting that you cannot force them to love you correctly, choose you fully, or become who you need them to be. Letting go becomes the final act of love bc it prioritizes peace over possession
Pattern Recognition is also the form of intelligence that causes the most stress.
You will see things that others do not.
You'll feel crazy.
Things will be *so obvious* to you, and others will just deny it.
I can act tough all I want, but deep down, I’m just a girl who loves love and wants soft, intentional affection, little acts of care, and random reassurance.
Please, inject it into my veins.