But yeah may the kind of love that feel safe and secure, the kind of love thats warm and constant find me soon🥹
Someone who is sure of me despite my lackings, who genuinely wanted to celebrate my wins, respect me, supports me, and is willing to love me fully and a whole.
Kenapa sih gada yg bilang jadi dokter itu bikin prone to impostor syndrome and feeling like a failure padahal kayanya jurusan/profesi lain setelah lulus mereka bangga bangga aja sama pencapaiannyaaa tp dokter esp gp atau du tuh kaya dianggap bkn pencapaian
temenku pernah bilang: “saya tau kalau saya punya tempat buat bersujud. tapi saya juga ingin dipeluk.”
kalimat itu bikin aku langsung mewek, manusiawi banget. iman kuat, tapi tetap butuh pelukan & kehangatan manusia. keduanya penting.
I’m at a point in my life where as long as I know I did right by you, I’m okay with walking away when something no longer works. I used to hold on longer than I should’ve because I cared, because of history, or because I wanted things to work out. But I’ve learned you can’t keep carrying relationships by yourself. If I showed up, kept it real, and did my part, that’s enough for me. Whether it’s family, friends, whoever, I don’t force what’s no longer mutual. I just leave it where it’s at and keep moving.
When you truly love someone, you have to learn the art of waiting. Love is not about rushing, demanding or forcing things to fall into place. Sometimes the person you love needs time to heal, to grow or to simply find their way back to themselves. And if your love is real, you'll give them that space without making them feel guilty for it. Waiting doesn't mean putting your life on hold, it means keeping faith in a bond that is strong enough to survive distance, silence and time. The love that is meant for you will never be lost, it will return when both hearts are ready.
tau ga sih part tersedih dlm hubungan, itu when u have to beg to be loved properly. kadang mohon” itu ga dramatis tapi cuman kayak, can you please communicate with me? can you please reassure me? can u stop hurting me? tapi pelan” kamu mulai minta bare minimum, as if it’s too much.
Micro cheating is cheating. If you're talking to someone else without your partner knowing, then that's cheating. If you're going out with someone who's not a friend or not blood-related and your partner doesn't know, that's also cheating. If you're joking around with someone in a flirty way, that's cheating too.If you're flooding someone's inbox with messages without your partner knowing, that's cheating as well, especially if you're deleting the conversation because you don't want your partner to get mad. Well, that's also cheating, darling.
I used to believe that communication could fix anything, so I always spoke up. Now, I realize how draining that is. Sometimes, the peace of just letting people be who they are and walking away is worth much more
Women lose sexual interest when they're emotionally disappointed, and I’m not going to argue about that. A woman can love you deeply, stay loyal, support you through hard times, and still slowly disconnect the moment she feels unheard, unappreciated, or emotionally neglected. Most people think attraction disappears because of looks, time, or routine, but emotional disappointment is what quietly changes everything.
Please fall in love with someone who genuinely wants you, patiently waits for your messages, understands you even in your madness, talks to you after a fight. The right person sees the mess and moods but still chooses you.
Jujur, gw suka bgt dg kata²nya Cinta Laura di suatu podcast. Kurang lebih gini.
"I want a leader. I want my man to be my leader in our relationship. I would like the man to actually be a man. Tapi bukan berarti aku ingin dalam hubungan yang misogynist juga . Dalam arti, if I were to get married and have kids one day, laki-laki juga harus mengerti bahwa karena aku juga bekerja, karena aku juga memiliki karir, dia juga mengerti bahwa kadang-kadang, let's say ada apa-apa dengan anaknya, kita bergantian dalam mengurus anak tersebut. Shared responsibility."