third degree murder is when you shove someone and they accidentally hit their head and die. not when you kneel on a person's neck for 7 mins, even after they tell you they can't breathe.
Thereโs this misconception that if you pour more love into someone eventually they will return that energy. In a normal healthy relationship this works. If someone doesnโt value you and they only see you as a resource, they arenโt going to all of a sudden see you for who you are.