@Hatussy3 while i definitely agree it's a dynamic that should be handled better by the show, i also feel like it's maybe less weird since jack was a medic ? is there not a likely chance that he joined as a way to help the injured on both sides & not due to supporting the conflict itself ??
@lesbianhedonic @himejoshitzy @lainfangirl1 the diff here is that she fr felt this for a man IN her life, someone she had actual access to & connection with, i've only ever felt this way vaguely for ppl i've never truly met & i KNOW that if i DID, i would NOT feel this way or do anything cuz im not actually into guys ???
@lesbianhedonic @himejoshitzy @lainfangirl1 im sorry but that is SO much different from just being attracted to unreachable male figures .... ur friend literally had a crush on a man in her life & had sex with him, and u're comparing that to just sometimes liking the idea of men but never actually wanting one in any way ??