Cutting someone off who constantly hurt and manipulated you isn’t enough. You also need to cut off the version of yourself that allowed someone to do you like that over and over and still was given access into your life.
Dear Young Adults,
You can leave.
If you don’t like your doctor, walk out in the middle of your appointment.
Leave the party. End the date. Don’t wait until the “polite” time to leave or endure because you think you’ll make a scene.
You can go.
it’s different when ppl who wronged u wanna reconcile when ur in a better place because u have developed the self esteem to reject them but when ur in a dark place and they reach out to u it’s like i have no self control please don’t do this lol