actually you know what
why the FUCK havent we made blenders quieter, we found a way to silence guns, SURELY someone can silence a blender
please
theyre so fucking loud
Stay away from the people who trusted your abuser’s narrative about you without even bothering to ask you directly. They weren’t looking for the truth.
some people are perfectly comfortable disrespecting you. what they’re not comfortable with is you refusing to accept it. the anger you see after that is not about the situation. it’s about losing access to treating you however they want.
People who question your character the second they think you made a mistake while you stayed silent through all of theirs tell you everything you need to know.
Nobody villainizes you more than the person who realized you've seen through them.
The moment the mask stops working, they rush to control the narrative and paint you as the problem because it's easier to attack your character than to face the truth about themselves.
It's unfair, right? They push you to your limits, provoke you until you're hurt and angry, and the moment you finally react,
they act like you're the problem. Suddenly, you're the toxic one. You're the overreacting one. But when they do something wrong, it's always excused. You're`not allowed to feel. You're not allowed to be upset. Your emotions are constantly invalidated. And somehow, you're always left questioning yourself as if feeling deeply is a crime.
It’s ironic how easily people can twist the narrative, when you stayed silent despite their disrespect and knowing they wronged you, yet somehow you end up painted as the villain.
Making assumptions is cowardly and only convenient when you want to see the worst in someone. When you can instead bravely ask questions and hopefully get the truth in return.