11. Kids—how many, when, or if at all
12. Household chores and who does what
13. Long-term money goals (retirement, investments, lifestyle)
14. Conflict resolution—how you fight and make up
15. Personal space and alone time needs
16. Views on monogamy, boundaries, and infidelity
17. Alcohol, substances, and social habits
18. Holidays, traditions, and how you’ll spend them
19. Where you want to live long-term (city, country, abroad)
20. Aging parents and future caregiving responsibilities
BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED DISCUSS..
1. Bills
2. Parenting styles
3. Credit & Debt
4. Religion
5. How to deal with family
6. Childhood traumas
7. Sexual expectations
8. Family health history
9. Dream home
10. Careers and education