Melona MD

She/her I’m not a doctor

[Mr. Edgelord Walmart Guy @ASo1omons]

This made me laugh maybe more than it should..

[☔ @Whotfismick]

when you finally start making some good money but the cost of living goes up 5x

[brinity base @brinitybase]

Trinity is so funny bro

[Melona MD @melapro_newb]

Zurich is finally going to be home and staying at home after 7 months of training 😭 damn we really did that

[YIA k🪅 remi + suisui week! @godneffa]

ppl can still feel disrespected if you disrespect them intentional or not

[Echo ↬ @vikku60879]

The #Obsession only works because Bear lives in the middle.
If he's purely innocent, then the wish is just bad luck and the film loses its critique.
If he's purely evil from the start, then there's no real discomfort because you never root for him and the tragedy disappears.
The film needs him to be ordinary. Someone you understand. Someone you might even defend.
The horror isn't what Bear becomes.
It's realizing he was always capable of it, and so is the guy sitting next to you in the theater.

#Obsession

[Melona MD @melapro_newb]

Feels like a slap in the face when you get food delivered and they don’t include any of the sauces or condiments that go with it

[•Mel•🏂 @DrMel_]

I’ve always wondered why majority of the people I’ve met in my adult life have been avoidant women, couldn’t quite pin point what was attracting them to me but the moment I realized, everything changed

I realized why I kept attracting them is cos I gave without asking for anything in return. I meet someone and once I feel a little chemistry, I switch to caretaker mode, I validate them, listen to them, go out of my way to be there for them, create safety for them to open up and they do

But I do this not minding if they’re doing same for me, and honestly that’s one of the fastest ways to build exhaustion and resentment. If you keep giving, hoping they’ll give back, you’re wasting your time. Nobody recieved free money and goes “oh maybe I need to give him too” when the giver hasn’t asked for any

I’m now realizing I should have matched energy, I should have paced my emotional investment, should have given and waited to be given back cos that’s what a relationship is, reciprocal not one sided.

If you’re reading this and you can relate, stop abandoning yourself. You deserve to be listened to as well, you deserve to be validated, you deserve to have your needs met, don’t let yourself go without reciprocation. A healthy relationship is one where both people strive to be emotionally responsible for each other not one partner being responsible while feeling exploited

[Melona MD @melapro_newb]

Who’s your bias I’m your bias

[𝐠𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐢𝐟𝐞𝐫 @____selah]

“You cannot reconcile with someone who is not honest about how they mishandled you“.

[Valentina V. @valentinavoight]

doing shrooms in Sweden at 9PM but you can’t tell because it never gets dark & you’re there with ur avoidant bf who hates u & his friends who just want him to break up with u after ur mom & dad were killed by ur bipolar sister

[The Nostalgia Queen @Snow_Blacck]

Digimon. Digital monsters. And I can’t stress this enough: Digimon are the champions.

[WALKER🪂 @maxl1am]

how you hate me when i’m in my room doing this

[bria @mangakagome]

well yes !

[😹 @synthpoptruther]

showing ppl old kpop mvs and telling them like no promise this was just the vibe at the time ok like

[Solyricon @Solyricon]

Ended a situationship and he said “You wanna know the real reason I never took you seriously?” I’m like “Tell me. I’ve actually been dying to know” and the reason was very jarring to say the least. But I post this to say, you’re not crazy. If it feels like he is saying one thing and doing another. Or you’re waiting out a change in the relationship. He knows what he’s doing. There’s a reason. He’s just hoping your standards stay low and you want him bad enough to collect the crumbs indefinitely.

[baby jane 🍓 @janedazey]

walked past a toddler with his mom today and as i passed he said loudly “who is that?” and his mom was like “we don’t know her, we don’t know everyone”

[Melona MD @melapro_newb]

Missing Zurich a lot today