can't be w a man if i don't feel safe. are my thoughts and insecurities safe w you, are my fears and dreams safe w you? are you going to make me feel stupid for not being perfect? is me being imperfect okay? do i have to worry about being judged by you? safety is my love language
yesterday my students saw me eating a snack at my desk and one asked:
“Ms. Taylor when you go on dates you finish all your food huh?”
I almost quit my job
Being calm about everything allows your mind to find solutions. Calmness is also a state of trust. Instead of overthinking and overreacting, you just surrender for that moment and allow yourself to receive guidance for what doesn’t make sense.