I stopped accepting the "I've been busy" "I got a lot going on right now" type excuses from somebody I'm dating because how are you supposed to build something forever if anytime shit gets hard you put me on the shelf? i'm gone.
My newest prayer is simple: "Lord, settle it." Settle my mind. Settle my heart. Settle my spirit.
Teach me to walk in peace instead of anxiety, and faith instead of fear.
i saw a girl on tiktok who said "accountability is so important to me. nobody's perfect, but don't try to flip the script and make my reaction the issue when your actions lit the match" i felt this to the core.
the actual truth is that i'm loved. like regardless of what i achieve, there are people in my life that see my heart. that's where fortune is. being seen and being loved. so i am rich in this way.
i really hate it when a person thinks undenzela i favour by being in my life bethuna you don’t , the minute you feel like this ingaske uzikhuphe kum same time.